
Debunking Trauma Myths


Dr. Kayleigh Watters
Licensed Psychologist
Expertise:
Trauma, Cognitive Processing Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy
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Have you ever second-guessed your own trauma? Maybe someone told you it “wasn’t that bad,” or made you feel blamed, dismissed, or invalidated. You're not alone. In this course, we’ll unpack and challenge the harmful myths that surround trauma—like who “counts” as a survivor, how healing is “supposed” to look, and what trauma “should” feel like. We’ll explore widespread misconceptions about trauma, including those related to sexual trauma, childhood trauma, and the recovery process. Using a trauma-informed lens, participants will learn how to recognize and debunk these myths while fostering more accurate, compassionate, and inclusive understandings of trauma and healing.
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Identify and evaluate common myths about trauma.
Explain psychological, physiological, and developmental impacts of trauma throughout the lifespan.
Apply research to debunk trauma myths and promote more accurate compassionate responses.
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Understanding Trauma
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Understanding Trauma
Learn what trauma really is and the different ways it can happen to people. Understand how your brain and body respond to traumatic experiences, and why some people develop PTSD or other lasting effects.
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Myths about Trauma
Challenge false beliefs about who can be traumatized and when. Discover the truth about how common trauma is, why it affects people long-term, and why telling someone to "get over it" doesn't work.
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Sexual Assault
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Sexual Assault
Understand what sexual assault means and learn what real consent looks like. Find out why people might freeze or go along with things during an assault, and why physical reactions don't mean someone wanted it to happen.
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Myths about Sexual Assault
Learn the facts that counter harmful beliefs about assault survivors. Understand why victim-blaming is wrong and why all survivors deserve support no matter what happened.
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Childhood Trauma
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Childhood Trauma
Explore how bad experiences in childhood affect kids and follow them into adulthood. Learn how common these experiences are, what helps kids bounce back, and how some people find strength through their struggles.
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Myths about Childhood Trauma
Challenge myths that children are "too young" to be affected by trauma or will simply "grow out of" their experiences. Understand how trauma responses are adaptive survival mechanisms, not signs of being "broken."
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Treatment & Recovery
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Treatment & Recovery
Learn about proven therapies that help trauma survivors heal. Understand different treatment approaches and why the goal isn't to erase what happened, but to help you live well despite it.
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Myths about Treatment & Recovery
Address misconceptions about trauma therapy effectiveness and the recovery process. Learn why therapy is typically more effective than medication alone, how treatment is appropriately paced, and why healing follows a non-linear path with temporary increases in symptoms before improvement.
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